top of page
False superiority
Yesterday, in a group conversation, someone said, “This person doesn’t like the way you trainees behave. They’re naive and don’t understand how real life works.” Everyone laughed and looked at me, because I’m a trainee.
Oct 31
What’s Stopping You Now?
I once heard a question in a TEDx talk: " What would you do if you had unlimited money and unlimited time? "
Oct 29
The Feedback List
We’re two months away from a new year. In corporate, that means performance reviews, ratings, and long discussions about ratings.
Oct 28
Answer. Reason. Example.
Today I learned a small framework I wish someone had handed me years ago. It’s called ARE: Answer, Reason, Example.
Oct 27
Holding your ground
I used to react to everything.
Oct 26
The manager nobody noticed
I think I'm good at managing multiple things in life. And lucky me, I landed in a management role almost by coincidence. My job is to handle multiple stakeholders and multiple moving parts, and to keep hold of all of them. And I get paid for it.
Oct 25
On having trust issues
These days, almost all my grocery shopping happens on the go, on Blinkit and Zepto. I don’t have time to plan my days, let alone my months. For me, quick commerce is convenience, nothing more.
Oct 24
Why Did You Remember This at 10 PM?
It was 10 pm when the message came in. Someone from work, about work.
Oct 23
Who am I when the stakes are low?
A senior manager in my office used to be sweet to all of us. Warm, patient, easy to talk to. Recently, I watched her speak to a new trainee in a way I couldn’t believe. “You’re unfit for business. You don’t even know how to use Excel. You don’t even know this, you don’t even know that.”
Oct 21
Let It Take the Boring Work
Today, as I walked back to my desk, I overheard someone say, “Take help from Copilot, It'll do a really good job.” The line followed me all the way to my seat.
Oct 19
The Tax
Every week, I spend two hours washing my hair. Getting ready to go out takes another two or three. My brother needs five minutes: shirt, pants, perfume, done.
Oct 18
The Urge That Faded
I'm at a mall right now, here to buy clothes for a friend.
Oct 17
Do I Have the Option to Say No?
It was Friday evening. I was leaving office when a senior manager called.
Oct 16
Strict With Work, Soft With People
After more than two years of working, I’ve realised there are two broad ways to get things done at work.
Oct 15
One Moment of Patience
Today at work, I was agitated with someone who just wasn’t getting things done.
Oct 14
He Was Right. I Kept Talking.
Today at work, I was discussing a problem with a colleague. We had two different points of view on the same thing.
Oct 13
Right vs Good
Today, after gym, I booked a Rapido ride home.
Oct 12
Pace and Pain
Today, I prepared myself for a 10k.
Oct 11
bottom of page